How to Decide Whether to End Contact with a Friend or Family Member Deciding to go no contact with a friend or family member is a deeply...

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Every single one of us exists with an autopilot—an subconscious, evolutionary form of thinking or decision making that exists to preserve...

If you’re queer, neurodivergent, and alive right now, chances are you’ve felt it — the hollow ache in your chest when the world feels...

Holidays, whether those that get a lot of mainstream fanfare or those that are more a part of lesser-know cultural tradition, can be a...

This is one of my favorite ideas from The Willpower Instinct , which is a treasure trove of executive function strategies. I’ve played it...

Let’s Talk About Loneliness When someone asks if I'm an introvert or an extrovert, I say I'm an extrovert with social anxiety. I want...

Resources to help identify when a relationship is unsafe and how to seek support

As Instagram influencers and financial experts flood our feeds, calling for us to freeze our credit scores, download our student loan...

A common misconception about healing from trauma is that you are broken and that healing is how you get fixed. Healing from trauma is not...

If you've found yourself at this particular blog post, Am I Autistic?  may be a question you've been wrestling with. This article is...

Religious trauma and executive dysfunction go hand in hand more often than you might think. Executive dysfunction is commonly associated...

Learn a new mindfulness technique to help you navigate anxiety and other difficult feelings amidst concerns about H5N1 & public health

Last fall, I met a man in a tiny vegan restaurant in New York City. As we were chatting about our lives, he told me that he loves human...

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So glad you found your way to this little corner of the internet. My queerly beloved person, friend, family member—dear fellow community...

Introduction to Religious Trauma Religious trauma can include widely varied experiences. To illustrate these we're going to use two...

In troubled times, values-based action can be a lifeline we follow back towards clarity and purpose. It can lend meaning to life’s most...

Post-election strategies from a social-justice-oriented psychotherapist The morning after election night, I woke up and saw who won. I...

Ever wonder what your therapist is thinking while you're talking? Well, if you’re in session with me, it’s probably a lot of chaotic...